And I came home and told my parents and my grandmother not to drink toasts for me. That's slightly insulting to myself and my dreams. =/ I leave them alone about it normally, but I hate it when people say they're drinking for me. If you're doing something for me, in honor of me, or for/in honor of my dreams/future/prosperity/whatever, then how about you take a day and don't drink for me? Because that would actually mean something to me. Saying you're drinking for me just makes me feel dirty.